goodmenproject:

Emily Heist Moss surveyed friends, strangers, and GMP readers about cunnilingus. What she found was intimacy, insecurity and the “ick factor.”

This is saddening. And makes me a little angry too.

What is wrong with our society if people think its gross to go near one set of genitals but not another?

Also, this nothing of reciprocity, just…ugh. You shouldn’t have to do anything because of what you’ll get (or won’t get) in return. Anyone who demands return action for a sexual act needs a slap.